What Many Women Want From Their Man

Hey! Brace yourselves for an electrifying ride as I dive into a controversial question that has tongues wagging and minds spinning: What do women ACTUALLY seek in a man? Get ready for some eye-opening revelations, because we're about to peel back the curtain and expose the shocking truth!

Money, Money, Money - It's All About the Benjamins!

Let's cut to the chase, shall we? Contrary to what the politically correct crowd might want you to believe, women are often looking for one thing above all else: cold, hard cash! Yes, you heard it right, folks! Many women out there want a man who can wine and dine them, shower them with luxurious gifts, and provide a lifestyle that would make even the Kardashians envious.

 

You Are Seen!

Maya Angelou said, 'I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.'

The Power of Setting Standards in Your Relationship

 The Power of Setting Standards in Your Relationship: Meeting Your Needs for a Fulfilling Partnership

Welcome to an intense discussion about the importance of setting standards in your relationship for a truly fulfilling partnership. It's crucial to establish clear expectations and boundaries to ensure a healthy and satisfying connection with your partner. Let's dive deeper into this topic with boldness and conviction.

Recognize Your Worth:

You are deserving of love, respect, and happiness in your relationship. Know your self-worth and refuse to settle for anything less than what you deserve. Value yourself and prioritize your needs and desires within the partnership.

Being A Man of Quality!

Today I want to talk about how to become a Man of Quality.

First and foremost, let's define what a Man of Quality is. A Man of Quality is someone who has his life together, is financially stable, emotionally mature, physically fit, and has a strong sense of purpose. Essentially, he is the best version of himself.

So, how can you become a Man of Quality?

Invest in yourself: Start by investing in yourself. This means taking care of your physical and mental health, developing your skills and knowledge, and working on your personal growth. The more you invest in yourself, the more you'll grow and become a Man of Quality.

Focus on your finances: A Man of Quality is financially stable. This doesn't mean you have to be a millionaire, but you should have a solid plan for your finances. Make sure you have a budget, save money, and invest in your future.

OBEDIENCE & SUBMISSION

 Why do we have such a problem with OBEDIENCE?

Here in America it seems as though there is disgust  
for the word obedience and submission. 

As a Christian pastor, I believe that both men and women are equal in the eyes of God and are deserving of mutual love and respect within a marriage. However, obedience in marriage is a sensitive topic that requires careful consideration and understanding.

In many cases, the issue of obedience in marriage arises due to a lack of communication and understanding between partners. Women, in particular, may feel that their opinions and desires are not being heard or valued by their husbands. This can lead to a sense of resentment and resistance towards obedience.

Furthermore, some women may have experienced past trauma or abuse that makes it difficult for them to trust and submit to their husbands. It is important to recognize these issues and provide support and resources to help women heal and move towards a healthy, respectful relationship.

As a Christian pastor, I believe that obedience is not about one partner exerting control over the other, but rather a mutual commitment to love and respect. As we strive to build healthy and loving marriages, let us look to the teachings of Christ, who modeled love and servanthood to those around him. May we be filled with grace, patience, and compassion towards our spouses, seeking to understand their needs and desires. May we embrace the beauty of mutual submission and work towards building strong, loving relationships that honor God and bless those around us.

Black Men: Better Than You Think!

As a Pastor, writer and blogger, I recognize the importance of amplifying the voices and experiences of marginalized communities. In this post, I will be sharing some of the critical opinions that black women have expressed about black men.

It is essential to note that these opinions are not representative of all black women's views or experiences. Still, they offer valuable insight into the ways that gender dynamics and systemic issues can impact relationships and interactions within the black community.

One of the most common criticisms that black women voice about black men is that they often perpetuate harmful and oppressive attitudes towards women. Many black women feel that black men can be dismissive of their experiences with sexism and misogyny, and that they often prioritize their own desires and perspectives over those of women.

Additionally, black women often feel that black men do not do enough to support them and their communities. Many black men are accused of neglecting their responsibilities as fathers and partners, leaving black women to bear the burden of caring for their families and communities alone.

Some black women also feel that black men can be emotionally unavailable or lacking in empathy. This can manifest in various ways, from dismissive attitudes towards mental health concerns to a reluctance to engage in open and honest communication with their partners.

Finally, many black women feel that black men can perpetuate harmful stereotypes about blackness, such as the belief that black men are inherently violent or hypersexual. These stereotypes can be damaging to the entire black community, and many black women feel that black men need to take more responsibility for challenging and dismantling them.

In conclusion, these are just a few of the critical opinions that black women have expressed about black men. It is crucial to listen to and engage with these perspectives to build stronger and more equitable relationships within the black community.

Don't Be Left Out

Greetings to all my brothers and sisters seeking to find love and build lasting relationships!

As the host for Relationships with Pastor Rick, it's my pleasure to invite you to join our community of sexy and exciting individuals who are passionate about improving their love lives. Our mission is simple: to provide guidance and support to black men and women looking to get married and have better relationships. Dont Be Left Out!

We understand that finding love can be a challenging and sometimes frustrating experience, but we believe that with the right tools and resources, anyone can create a fulfilling and satisfying romantic life. I've had the pleasure who to help countless individuals find love and build strong, lasting relationships.

Whether you're single and looking for love, or in a relationship and seeking to improve your communication and intimacy, our blog has something for everyone. From tips on how to spice up your sex life, to advice on how to navigate common relationship challenges, our content is designed to help you overcome obstacles and build a stronger, more satisfying connection with your partner.

In addition to our blog, we will also offer a range of resources, including workshops, coaching, community events, videos, and books, all designed to help you take your relationship to the next level. Plus, by joining our community, you'll have the opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals who are on a similar journey to finding love and building fulfilling relationships. And be eligible for our free give-a-ways

So what are you waiting for? Join our community today and start on the path to a more satisfying and fulfilling romantic life. Follow us on social media, sign up for our newsletter, and stay up to date on all the latest tips and advice from Pastor Rick and the Relationships with Pastor Rick team. We can't wait to welcome you into our community!

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Why Women May Lose Interest in Sex with Their Husbands After Several Years of Marriage

Over the years i've encountered couples who struggle with sexual issues in their marriage, including a common problem of wives who seem to have lost their desire for sex with their husbands. While every relationship is unique, there are several reasons why this may happen, and understanding them can help couples address the issue and find ways to reconnect.

1. Routine and Familiarity

One reason why sex may lose its appeal over time is the natural tendency of humans to get used to things that are repeated. In the early stages of a relationship, sex may feel new, exciting, and even a little scary, as couples explore each other's bodies and desires. But as time goes on, the novelty wears off, and sex can become a routine part of the relationship, like eating or sleeping. While routine can provide a sense of security and stability, it can also make sex feel less thrilling and spontaneous.

What can couples do to counteract this? One way is to intentionally vary their sexual experiences, by trying new positions, locations, or types of touch. Couples can also communicate about their fantasies, desires, and boundaries, and work together to create a safe and adventurous space for sexual exploration. By keeping the passion alive and resisting the temptation to take each other for granted, couples can rekindle the flame of desire that brought them together.

Relationships 101

Coming In April

Show Times To Be Announced Soon

"Get ready for the most electrifying show about Black love and relationships ever! 

Join Dr. Rick Greene and his all-star lineup of co-hosts, including the bold and outspoken Pastor “P” Phyllis Ramey, host of “Reflections” and the provocative, investigative journalist Tybella Harrell, host of "Keeping Christ Close", for an unfiltered and groundbreaking new show that will push the boundaries of what you thought was possible. 

From taboo topics to raw discussions about infidelity and toxic relationships, we're not afraid to challenge societal norms and explore the most controversial aspects of dating, love, marriage, sex, and divorce. Tune in on Facebook Live and YouTube streaming and engage in candid conversations that will make you question everything you thought you knew about Black love and relationships. Don't miss out on the opportunity to unleash your wildest questions to build the healthy, loving relationships you deserve!"

What you need to know about Dating, Love, Marriage, Sex, and Divorce 

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Relationships 101: 

What you need to know about dating, 

love, marriage, sex, & divorce

My mission is to help repair the breach caused by broken relationships, which is devastating families, hurting our children, and destroying our society.

After years and years of counseling couples and individuals and many asking for copies of my messages, radio show transcripts, and counseling materials, I have finally put together a compilation of my work which can be applied to your partnership.

Relationships 101: What you need to know about dating, love, marriage, sex, & divorce provides easy to follow tips and insights which will strengthen your marriage, dating relationship, and will help you to determine if your partner is the right person for you to spend the rest of your life with.

A good relationship is more than something we want—it's something we need to be our happiest, healthiest, and most productive selves. 

Fulfilling relationships don't come automatically. They take an investment in time and energy as well as social skills, which can be learned.

There must be willingness to understand and work with your partner to meet each others needs and understand each others perspective, so that you can  find that place of connection where both of you are fulfilled; not just for your sakes, but for your family and your children as well.

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If You Love Her...

If you love her...

You won't abandon her when times become difficult, even if she may want to abandon you.

You will never be physically or emotionally abusive to her.

You will always treat her with respect, even if you feel it's not earned

You will lay down your life for her.

Laying down your life means putting HER first in ALL things. Meeting her needs as best as you can, and creating an atmosphere of appreciation that will allow her to grow and thrive as a person.

Do these things and you will be amazed by the way she will blossom, grow and treat you with love, respect and release her passion in return.

Your relationship will be...AWESOME!

What's Important Now!

When you examine your life, what's most important to you? Is it you family, your friends, your job, your health, your financial success? What is really the most important thing to you? You may have never even thought about it, outside a casual moment of reflection.

Your answer should be life... and next to that should be those whom you love. Know that the goals that are important to you, you will find a way to accomplish and those things that are not; you WILL make an EXCUSE for why that have not been achieved.

If you truly love your partner then they must be your priority. Or simply you don't love them as much as you profess. Are you deceiving yourself and thereby deceiving them? Perhaps.

It is the people in our lives that we claim are most important that will ultimately bring us the joy, satisfaction, and happiness that we seek to obtain through means which actually take us away from those very ones who will truly bring us fulfillment.

We work at our jobs to achieve financial reward, recognition, esteem, and self-validation, however it will never compare to the all encompassing love from our friends and loved ones.

What's Important Now, is that your focus be on loving the one who created you and those who have been placed along side of you... as you go through this life's journey?

Don't allow anything to be so important in your life that it causes you to detract your time from those whom you claim you love the most, because these are the people who are along side of you as you travel your life's journey... many of them will be at the finish line to give you comfort and to hold up when you're weary. This is how you WIN in LIFE.

WHY YOUR MARRIAGE WILL FAIL AND HOW TO AVOID IT!

Remember when you would have done almost anything for you husband or wife? You might have even been willing to lay down your life for them, but now that's just some distant memory. In fact, you might even be wondering if you can even save your marriage.

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Why your marriage will fail, and what to do about it will show you how to change the course of your relationship with your spouse. The truth is you can read all the books, listen to all the experts, do all of the right things, and still have your marriage fail. Sometimes you have to step outside of the box and do some things that are considered unconventional to actually make an impact in your relationship that will be strong enough to make your relationship return to its plotted course.

I've observed that many people are convinced that they know what's best for their relationship, only to find that they were very wrong. Sadly people don't take the time, do the research, nor gain any experience in understanding the dynamics of relationships before they dive right in or even when they seek to help someone else’s. In fact, most of the time when people are counseled they still end divorced anyway. The bible tells us that we are transformed be the renewing of our minds, so before we can change our attitudes and change our actions we must change our minds.